One hand on the steering wheel, the other on her inner thigh.
sext: i want to pay bills and share household duties and approach our late 20’s in a financially and emotionally stable way with you
in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result